Bucks &amp; Oxon


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<p>In his former life as a pro footballer, PT Steve Gregory didn’t have to put too much thought into staying fit. “As an athlete, everything you do is perfectly aligned with living a healthy life”, he says. “You’re exercising a lot, chances are you’re outside in the fresh air more than most people and you’re prioritising sleep and good nutrition. You’re surrounded by supportive, like-minded people and you’ve got purpose.” It’s a winning formula, but when he retired from playing after 12 years, he realised that the rest of us often aren’t able to make the maths math when it comes to maintaining our fitness.&nbsp;</p>



<p>“Modern life pulls us away from those key pillars of a healthy life a lot of the time, which is why I originally started a bootcamp with my wife Jess to replicate that pro training experience.” The bootcamp evolved into <a href="https://www.fitlife.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fitlife</a>, a gym with two clubs (in <a href="https://www.fitlife.co.uk/haddenham-timetable" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Haddenham</a> and <a href="https://www.fitlife.co.uk/oxford-timetable" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Oxford</a>) and an M.O to make those who’ve had negative experiences with fitness in the past feel motivated to work out on the regular. </p>



<p>The key to keeping up your gym-going resolutions? Steve’s got some surprising ideas up his sleeve, and it’s mainly mind over matter. Read on for some simple fitness revelations.&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-don-t-love-bomb-the-gym-nbsp">Don’t love bomb the gym&nbsp;</h2>



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<p>This will be my tenth January as a gym owner and I can unfortunately tell who probably won’t be coming by the end of the month by the time the first week’s up! If someone comes to the gym every day for the first seven days, that’s a red flag for me. By day eight they might not be able to come, then the ‘all-or-nothing’ thinking comes in and they tell themselves they’ve failed. It’s better to see fitness as a long-term relationship. You don’t date someone then suddenly have a life partner; you go through a process, you work at it and you give it time.&nbsp;</p>



<p>Try not to be too keen early on – keeping up that volume of training is unsustainable and it’s a misconception that you have to work out every day, even elite athletes don’t! Rest and recovery is all part of the plan. The fittest people at the gym, across every age group, come between ten to 14 times a month, or around three times a week. They’re consistent and probably not the ones making any New Year’s resolutions! They get amazing results over a 12 month period and there might not be any big goals, they just make it manageable. If you are setting intentions, make them for the year. Do an audit of what you can achieve without overestimating the time available, then say ‘I’m going to do 150 workouts in 2026’ rather than X many in January. You’ll be in a fitter and stronger place by December as you won’t be spreading yourself so thin.&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-avoid-social-media-comparison-traps">Avoid social media comparison traps</h2>



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<p>Social media isn’t great at ‘balance’, and that goes for the fitness content you’re probably seeing too. Whether it’s an influencer’s training highlights or someone banging a digital drum about a fast fix, try to ignore the noise because fitness is far too individual for what an algorithm allows! What staying fit boils down to is a lifelong cycle of understanding how you, personally, can look after yourself in all aspects in the minimum amount of time possible, and then to keep that up. </p>



<p>Don’t suddenly feel the need to set your alarm for a 5am workout just because someone online says it’s a golden bullet. If that time doesn’t work around your schedule or allow you to get enough sleep, it’ll soon be a weak point and get in the way of you exercising altogether. Nail basics like sleep and you’ll boost your chances of progressing without burning out. It’s a 360º thing, and if you were up until midnight, a 6am class won’t be for you. Just because other people are doing it doesn’t mean that you have to.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-follow-the-magic-workout-formula">Follow the magic workout formula</h2>



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<p>That said, there are some essential fitness rules that work for everyone. Your workouts need to include cardio, strength training and mobility. Do too much of one and you could tip the balance on another (too much cardio could lead to muscle wastage, and too much strength training can cause mobility issues). You could split the three modalities into three different workouts, or incorporate them all into the one session if you can only train once that week. Ask yourself what you might be missing out on and adjust accordingly, depending on your life stage and what’s happening for you.&nbsp;</p>



<p>How you train in your 20s will probably look different to how you train in your 50s or 60s, but the formula is the same. We say cardio for a long life, strength training for a happy life and mobility work for a pain-free life. Even the pros have to revisit this one; the missing piece for me is often the latter. I don’t especially enjoy mobility work but as I go into my late 30s it’s the thing that’s going to give me an edge and real benefits so I keep that in mind and make it happen. I’d be a ticking time bomb for injury if I only did the other two. If you’re not sure where to start, AI can actually be a great tool for devising a fitness framework if you input your needs and circumstances.&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-book-a-sunday-planning-session">Book a Sunday planning session</h2>



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<p>Staying fit is a team sport, even if you hate team sports. Having loved ones on board can make or break whether you actually do that workout. Even as a fitness professional, I sit down with my wife with our calendars each week to get our exercise windows in, otherwise it won’t happen. Life is chaotic and you need to be flexible; chances are you can’t do a 5k before the school run like clockwork, so perhaps one of you picks up the kids on Tuesday that week while another does a class. Put it in the diary and then you’ve got someone else keeping you accountable too. If they’re leaving work early to facilitate that fitness class, you better go!&nbsp;</p>



<p>The same goes for group-training sessions. You’re less likely to cancel if you arranged to meet Debbie there earlier in the week and the bonds you form and that kind of accountability can make actually getting going a lot less effort.&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading" id="h-be-honest-with-yourself-and-your-trainer">Be honest with yourself (and your trainer!)</h2>



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<p>Going through the menopause, not sleeping well or just not managed a proper lunch? It’s important to be realistic and share that info with your PT or class teacher if you’re working out at a studio or in the gym. We can then optimise exercises to suit, whether that’s swapping heavy weights for medium ones to work muscles differently and avoid injury or account for strength dips. </p>



<p>This is especially important with the rise of people taking GLP-1 medications for weight-loss. These medicines can have great benefits for overall health for many and they’re not going anywhere but maintaining muscle mass while you’re on them is vital. If a trainer knows you’ve been prescribed them, they can tailor workouts according to your energy levels and with the goal of maintaining muscle mass safely. Not adapting your training plan can sometimes be dangerous and I encourage being really open and eliminating any sense of shame. You shouldn’t feel the need to hide anything and your results will only improve by being honest!&nbsp;</p>



<p><em><a href="https://www.fitlife.co.uk/haddenham-timetable" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Fitlife Haddenham:</a> Banks Park, Banks Rd, Haddenham, near Aylesbury HP17 8EE</em></p>



<p><a href="https://www.fitlife.co.uk/oxford-timetable" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Fitlife</em> <em>Oxford:</em></a><em> 211-213 Banbury Rd, Summertown, Oxford OX2 7HH</em></p>



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